In Loving Memory of Sheri Kucinskas (1967 – 2025)
Sheri Kucinskas loved the outdoors and nature. She embodied the term, “Tree Hugger”, and would literally hug trees
. She encouraged them, and told them that they were, “doing a good job”. Her enthusiasm for outdoor adventure was infectious in spite of the many years of fighting relapsing-remitting multiple sclerosis. Even when her MS symptoms were at their worst she kept a positive attitude and did everything she could to live life on her terms. Still, in spite of her fighting spirit, on February 25, 2025, Sheri passed away at home in Kailua, Hawaii. Though our hearts are heavy, we all find comfort in knowing that the pain and discomfort she felt due to her disease had finally ended.
Born in Torrington, Connecticut to John and Peggy, Sheri grew up in a moderately large family. Having five brothers and sisters (Debbie, Joey, Linda, Mark, and Kevin)
, Sheri was the youngest by several years. She had a love of books, animals, living healthy, and had worked many completely different types of jobs over the years, including; Program Assistant, Technical Writer, Editorial Assistant, Food Research & Development Technician, and Quality Control Analyst.
With her bubbly personality, Sheri made friends everywhere she went. She was the kind of friend who would correspond with a physical birthday card even when technology made snail-mail unnecessary. Sheri also didn’t shy away from programming her VCR (before DVRs existed), or adopting reading on her Kindle almost the moment it came on the market. Her life-long friend Darcy
and her exchanged letters and cards until Sheri was physically unable to.
She leaves behind her devoted best friend and life-parter of 22 years, Marc
. She is also survived by her brother, (also named) Mark
, and her nieces and nephews; Sarah, Jonathan, Craig, Eric, Lauren, Jaime, and Kim.
There will be two celebrations of Sheri’s life; One will be on Oahu, where her ashes will be spread in Maunalua Bay by her fellow paddlers. This will likely take place in late July 2025. The other event will be with her remaining family in the New England area, in joint-celebration of her brother Joey and sister Debbie, both of which had also recently passed. *[Information will be updated on sherikuz.com as it becomes available]
Sheri Kucinskas may no longer be among us, but her love, laughter, and fortitude will echo in the hearts of all who knew her.
Please enjoy the blog she left behind at sherikuz.com. Marc will continue add some of her off-line writings and photographs to the blog over the next few months, as well, to share in her memory.
2 responses to “Obituary”
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Today, I heard a faucet running while taking a nap. I wondered what you were doing in the kitchen.
Actually, it was a hose at the Mcdonalds across the street.
It’s been over a year since you could scoot around on your own, and even longer that you could get out of the recliner by yourself. But, my brain still thinks you can.
Also, you always made a lot of noise while I napped. That was totally uncalled for.
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Yesterday was the 1st anniversary of Sheri Stace Kucinskas passing.
We’re organizing a ‘Paddle Out’ in remembrance of Sheri on April 21st 2026. The plan is to paddle to the Maunalua Bay marker buoy and send her off there. Afterword, we’ll all get something to eat in Hawaii Kai.
Of course, it’s ‘weather permitting’.
At the moment… we have someone with a boat. So, if you wish to attend and can’t paddle out – we may be able to get you onto the boat.
Being able to paddle to the marker buoy was one of Sheri’s very proud accomplishments, and the years paddling in Maunalua Bay were some of her favorite moments. She looked forward to getting in the water all week and training with some of the best paddlers in the world. She was always disappointed when the weather didn’t cooperate and practice was canceled.
Paddling was one of the few (and last) physical activities she enjoyed for herself. Maunalua Bay seems to be a fitting place to send her off.
[Feel free to pass this along to anyone who may wish to participate]
Mahalo,
Marc

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